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🧖 '''25 – How to Avoid Fatigue--and Keep Looking Young!.''' In 1930, Dr. Joseph H. Pratt—an Osler pupil—founded a weekly “Class in Applied Psychology” at the Boston Dispensary (formerly the Thought Control Class) after finding many outpatients with crippling symptoms but no organic disease. Eighteen years on, thousands had improved; one longtime attendee recalled spells of blindness and a “floating kidney” diagnosis, then years of steady health after learning to calm worry. The clinic pairs medical exams with practical coaching: talk problems out for catharsis (Dr. Rose Hilferding), keep an “inspirational” notebook, make a next‑day schedule to beat hurry, and deliberately notice a spouse’s virtues to arrest nagging. Professor Paul E. Johnson leads relaxation sessions so effective that visitors nearly fall asleep in their chairs within ten minutes. The home regimen is concrete: lie on a firm floor for better support, sit like an “Egyptian statue” if the roast is in the oven, tense‑and‑release muscles toe to neck, breathe rhythmically (“the yogis were right”), and smooth the worry lines from brow and mouth. The mechanism here is twofold—expression follows state, and state follows posture—so physical stillness and slow breathing loosen the mental knots that fatigue tightens. By turning recovery into scheduled practice, the chapter translates worry management into daily hygiene. ''Lie flat on the floor whenever you feel tired.''
🧰 '''26 – Four Good Working Habits That Will Help Prevent Fatigue and Worry.''' Roland L. Williams, president of the Chicago & North Western Railway, begins the lesson bluntly: a cluttered desk breeds confusion, so clear everything except the single problem at hand. Carnegie underscores the point with five words painted on a ceiling at the Library of Congress—“Order is Heaven’s first law”—and with a New Orleans publisher who unearthed a typewriter lost for two years under piles of paper. Then comes a clinic-floor demonstration from Dr. W. S. Sadler: in the span of three interruptions he decides issues immediately, shows desk drawers holding only supplies, and explains that he dictates answers before a letter ever leaves his hand; six weeks later, the visiting executive has emptied a wagon‑load of reports and regained his health. Habit two—do first things first—draws on Henry L. Doherty’s hiring standard and on Charles Luckman, who planned his day at five each morning and stuck to priorities; Franklin Bettger set a nightly target and rolled misses forward. Habit three is to decide on the spot when the facts are in; H. P. Howell persuaded the U.S. Steel board to finish one issue at a time, ending the practice of lugging home bundles of reports. Habit four—organize, deputize, supervise—warns that executives who refuse to delegate often “pop off” in their fifties from tension. Together these habits strip away ambiguity, shorten drift, and replace rumination with throughput. Deciding fast on the right thing, and handing off the rest, protects attention—the scarce fuel that worry consumes. ''My rule is never to lay down a letter until I have answered it.''
🎯 '''27 – How to Banish the Boredom That Produces Fatigue, Worry, and Resentment.''' The case of Alice, a stenographer, shows the trap: after a day of dull work she staggers home “exhausted,” yet a last‑minute call to a dance lifts her until three in the morning without a trace of fatigue. Joseph E. Barmack’s experiments in the ''Archives of Psychology'' explain why—boredom lowers oxygen use and blood pressure, and subjects report headaches and irritability that reverse the instant interest returns. In the Canadian Rockies, banker‑guide S. H. Kingman watched commandos in peak condition wilt after hours of mountain work they found dull while older guides stayed lively because the climbing absorbed them. In Tulsa, a stenographer gamified oil‑lease forms and soon outpaced her division; another, Miss Vallie G. Golden of Elmhurst, Illinois, chose to act as if she liked retyping and found speed, reputation, and promotion followed. The “as if” rule runs through the chapter, bolstered by William James: behave as if you were eager and you become more eager. H. V. Kaltenborn turned door‑to‑door selling in Paris into a daily performance—memorized French pitch pasted in his hat, pep talks in the mirror—and earned $5,000 in commissions while learning the city he would later explain on radio. Interest is a renewable resource you can manufacture by reframing tasks, adding a contest, or supplying meaning. That shift turns fatigue from a bodily limit into a signal to redesign attention, which heads off worry at its source. ''Act “as if” you were interested in your job, and that bit of acting will tend to make your interest real.''
🌙 '''28 – How to Keep from Worrying About Insomnia.''' Samuel Untermyer, who studied at the College of the City of New York, chose to use wakeful hours rather than fight them—reading half the night, dictating at five a.m., earning $75,000 a year at twenty‑one and a $1,000,000 fee in 1931, and living to eighty‑one. The chapter gathers converging evidence: Dr. Nathaniel Kleitman at the University of Chicago never knew anyone to die of insomnia; Herbert Spencer complained he “hadn’t slept a wink” while a roommate lay awake listening to him snore; and a World War I case describes a soldier who never slept after a frontal‑lobe wound yet worked and stayed healthy for years. Security helps—Dr. Thomas Hyslop called prayer one of the best sleep producers, and Jeanette MacDonald recited Psalm 23 when low—while Dr. David Harold Fink’s “talk to your body” method and small pillows under knees and arms teach muscles to let go. Physical fatigue works too: Theodore Dreiser solved his worry by taking a section‑hand job until spikes and gravel knocked him out each night, and Dr. Henry C. Link’s desperate patient ran around the block until heavy breathing broke the spiral. Even in wartime, neurologist Foster Kennedy saw men so spent they slept through bombardment; exhaustion, not dread, decides. The practical cure is to stop fearing wakefulness, use the time or rest quietly, and let habit reset; the mechanism is simple—remove the alarm, and the nervous system rebalances. ''Remember that no one was ever killed by lack of sleep.''
=== VIII – "How I Conquered Worry" ===
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